Karla L. Miller

Karla L. Miller offers weekly advice on workplace dramas and traumas. You can send her questions at work.advice.wapo@gmail.com.
Latest from Karla L. Miller

I was hired for a remote job, but my boss now wants me in the office

If your boss hired you to work remotely but wants you to relocate, you can take away his leverage by being ready and willing to quit.

March 10, 2022

I survived covid-19, but my career at this company might be dead

On my first day back at work after covid leave, my manager called me into his office and said that my absence was “very bad timing” and my leadership role within the team had “come to an end.” I have over 15 years of leadership experience and an MBA from a top university.

March 3, 2022

A colleague found my email offensive, but I can’t figure out why and I want to set the record straight

If a colleague takes offense at something you've said, it's understandable to want to set the record straight. But once you've apologized, it may be best to let the matter lie.

February 24, 2022

The four-day workweek is gaining ground in Europe. It’s time Americans give it a serious look.

More employers and even entire countries are embracing the idea of shorter workweeks. But a four-day week may not be possible in every kind of job.

February 17, 2022

The ‘Great Reshuffle’: A costly, ineffective fix for understaffed schools, hospitals and businesses

Schools, businesses and hospitals are calling in substitutes to deal with labor shortages. But a lasting fix requires safer working conditions and better pay.

February 10, 2022

How not to ask for a raise: Sharing your personal hardships

Make your case for a raise based on your work performance — and keep the details about your financial predicament to yourself.

February 3, 2022

A health-care company tried to block workers from jumping to a competitor. They failed.

Heads-up, employers: Blocking the exit is not an acceptable employee-retention strategy.

January 27, 2022

Telling office bullies that they hurt your feelings may feel liberating. But it’s a bad idea.

It's understandable to want to call out backstabbers and bullies at your old job. But it may not actually help you move on.

January 20, 2022

What Luisa from ‘Encanto’ taught me about defining myself by an endless capacity for hard work

With the coronavirus pandemic entering its third year, it's time for a moment of reckoning. If we want to continue to depend on the Luisas who have kept our schools, hospitals, homes and businesses running, we are going to need to do more to support them.

January 13, 2022

My boss in a senior living facility won’t get vaccinated and I’m furious

Resentments are growing as the divide deepens between pro- and anti-vaccination colleagues. All you can control are the lengths you're willing to go to for your own and others' protection.

January 6, 2022