Are You Ready
to Be a Caregiver?
When you envision someone getting older, you may picture them in a nursing home or assisted living facility, surrounded by professional caregivers. This image, however, isn’t quite accurate. Most adults prefer to live independently at home, and are cared for by family caregivers who help them. Family and friends provide 90 percent of long-term care for adults, and as baby boomers age, more people in their 40s and 50s will become caregivers for their parents.
Caregiving can include many tasks. Someone in relatively good health may need help only with grocery shopping or occasional household tasks. A sick parent may require assistance with medical care and meal preparation. Chronically ill adults or those with cognitive impairment may also need aid with everyday tasks, such as bathing, dressing, eating and toileting.
Becoming a caregiver for a parent can be overwhelming, especially if you don’t do advance preparation. “No one wants to think about a parent growing old, understandably, and so most people don’t plan ahead,” said Virginia Morris, author of the book “How to Care for Aging Parents.” “As a result, they end up responding to one crisis after the next, which means more stress, more work and fewer choices. It’s a tough job that most of us will face, but it’s made much tougher when you have to learn on the fly.”
The best strategy is to plan ahead. Fortunately, organizations such as AARP can help caregivers with the information, support, advice and other resources they need. But before you ask for guidance, it helps to be aware of what you don’t know. That’s where this quiz comes in.
How ready are you to face the legal, financial, medical and personal issues involved with caring for a loved one? This quiz will help you uncover gaps in your caregiving knowledge, and point you to resources for learning and planning.