A wolf spider in a house in Oakton, Va., on Sept. 23. (Kevin Ambrose)

You’re enjoying dinner with your family when a spider the size of a half-dollar races across the floor and under the table. Even more terrifying — you wake in the middle of the night to find a large, hairy spider sharing your bed. Worse yet, it’s resting on your neck.

The demonlike arachnids invading our homes this time of year are wolf spiders, but they are not as threatening as they appear. They are mostly harmless to humans but are feared because of their large size and their fierce namesake. They bite only when provoked but are not aggressive. They actually are quite shy.

Just like stink bugs and spider crickets, wolf spiders are accidental intruders in homes. As summer transitions to autumn, cooling temperatures prompt them to seek cover and find mates, which ultimately leads them to discover cracks and holes in homes. A common entry point for the spider is under doors.


A wolf spider has eight eyes arranged in three rows on its large head. The bottom row has four small eyes, the middle row has two large eyes, and the top row has two medium-size eyes. (Kevin Ambrose)

In the Washington region, wolf spiders grow from one to three inches in length, including their legs, but the Carolina wolf spider can span more than four inches with its legs. They don’t spin webs but instead run down or ambush their prey.

They have eight eyes, eight hairy legs and two sharp fangs that inject a mild venom — nonlethal to humans, although the bite may cause swelling or a slight fever, comparable to a wasp sting.

Wolf spiders are the only spiders known to carry their spiderlings. A mother spider can have more than 100 babies clinging to her abdomen. If the mother is disturbed, however, the babies often flee in all directions.

The best way to keep wolf spiders out of your home is to caulk cracks and holes in the foundation and outer walls, and to add weather stripping to doors and windows. Spraying insecticides around the outside of a house can create a barrier for spiders, but chemical barriers are less effective than physical barriers because they wash away if they aren’t applied frequently. Mixing a few drops of pure peppermint oil, which can repel spiders, with water and spraying the mixture indoors (kitchens, bathrooms, bedrooms and other areas you’d prefer to be spider-free) could also be effective. A citrus oil mixture might also work if you’re not a fan of peppermint.


A wolf spider rests on the floor after it crawled under the front door. (Kevin Ambrose)

Like many of us in the Washington area, I have a horror story involving the wolf spider. I was weed-whacking in late September along the front of my house when I spotted what I would classify as a giant specimen on the brick at grass level.

Before I knew it, the weed whacker hit the spider, which instantaneously exploded. Wolf spider bits sprayed everywhere, including into my face. A big, sloppy hunk of spider hit me square in the eye, and no amount of swiping with my fingers or shirt could remove it. Gooey, liquid spider spread across my eyeball. I flushed my eye with water, never feeling like I got it all out. I will always wear eye protection when weed-whacking in the future.

Ultimately, my eye was fine, but I haven’t received my super-spidey powers yet.

I polled my friends on Facebook to find out how many have encountered this oversized spider. I quickly learned that many of them have interesting and creepy wolf spider stories. Here are a few of the stories I received, lightly edited:

I woke up in the night and discovered a giant wolf spider was on my neck. I grabbed it with my hand and threw it across the room. It was a gut reaction. The spider was so heavy I heard it hit the wall with a thud! The next morning, I found it and vacuumed it up. Elizabeth Cobb, Casanova, Va.

Back in my younger days, when I was at Goshen Boy Scout camp, I was lying on my cot inside the tent and I saw a big wolf spider directly above me on the tent wall. I swatted at it and the spider fell down on me with all its babies, which seemed like hundreds of them. I cannot remember how many times I was bitten but I know I was sick for three days from it. Spencer Marker, Centreville.

When I was a Girl Scout at Camp Potomac Woods, wolf spiders would gather inside our tent, near the top, and out of our reach. At night, we’d stare up at the spiders from our cots and try to convince ourselves they’d eat mosquitoes and bugs so it was actually good to have wolf spiders in the tent with us. When I returned home from camp, a giant wolf spider ran out of my suitcase. Apparently, one of them hitched a ride home with me. Karen Hanscom, Arlington.


A wolf spider lurks on a brick walkway after a recent rain. (Kevin Ambrose)

Others had a more level, rational take on the wolf spider, which arachnologists would be quick to point out, are harmless. In fact, they can be beneficial, eating up all the other bugs in your home.

We have a ton of wolf spiders here. I won’t kill them; I catch and release them. I put a cup over them then slide a piece of paper or cardboard under the cup and carry them outside. Terry Mayer, Pinehurst, N.C.

I like to escort wolf spiders out of my house. I hate killing things unless it stings, or it’s a fly or gnat. Prudence Justis, Richmond

At camp, we learned to hold the base of a flashlight on our forehead and look at the bottom of trees. Although this sounds like a trick like catching snipes the angle of the light to one’s eyes reveals the spider’s green eyes. The most amazing sight was that of a mother wolf spider with babies on her back. She looked completely jeweled with all of those little, glowing eyes! It’s a 45-year-old memory. Mary Ann Dalzell, Alexandria.

All of the photos in this post were all taken within the past two weeks. During that time, I’ve captured about 25 wolf spiders in my house. Unfortunately, my wolf spider infestation was the inspiration for this post.

And thanks to my friends for providing their interesting, informative and creepy wolf spider stories and photos. Some of us may not sleep as easily now.

Final note: Just as I was finishing this article, I heard a loud scream from downstairs. I ran down the steps from my office and found my wife in our foyer spraying a wolf spider with Windex. Windex is my wife’s first line of defense against spiders. I grabbed my camera and took a photo of the soaked spider and have included it at the bottom of this post. Windex is not recommended for spiders, but it will slow them down, which makes them easier to catch.


A wolf spider crawls across a basement carpet. (Kevin Ambrose)

A BugZooka can be used to capture wolf spiders in homes without having to handle or harm the spiders. (Kevin Ambrose)

A wolf spider hides between two bricks in a walkway. (Kevin Ambrose)

A wolf spider emerged from a garage and ran onto a driveway in Calvert County, Md., on Sept. 29. (Jason Hinton)

A wolf spider climbs on the outside wall of a house. (Kevin Ambrose)

A funnel weaver resembles a wolf spider and can be identified because of its funnel-shaped web. This photo was taken in Oakton, Va. (Kevin Ambrose)

A wolf spider that has been sprayed with Windex by the author's wife, who is terrified of spiders. She has discovered that spraying Windex slows most spiders, which makes them easier to catch. (Kevin Ambrose)