“People from the temple arranged the pot for us,” Kunjumon, 26, explained in a telephone interview with The Washington Post on Tuesday, adding that they had been unable to locate a boat.
“There was a brother who had helped with everything. He told us that there is no other way but to use the pot,” Kunjumon said.
So, dressed in their colorful wedding attire, they climbed into the pot — known as a “chembu” in Malayalam, a regional language.
“We traveled in that pot for at least 20 minutes to get to the venue,” the groom said, praising those who helped them navigate the waters, which had “a strong undercurrent.”
But while the couple’s journey to the temple by cooking pot went surprisingly well, their relationship hasn’t always been smooth sailing.
Kunjumon, who works as a cleaner, said he first met 22-year-old nursing assistant Aishwarya at a hospital late last year, with the two making their relationship official in February.
“We met, fell in love and got together as we were on covid duty,” he said, but explained that members of Aishwarya’s family had disapproved of their relationship because of their caste difference.
“I am Ezhava and she is from Nair caste. Her parents were okay with it, but her relatives, especially some uncles, were opposing it. So we eloped,” he said.
The couple’s decision sparked Aishwarya’s family to file a police report against Kunjumon — although police officials supported the couple’s move, describing them as independent adults.
At the wedding, only a few people were in attendance because of the floods, the lack of family support and the coronavirus crisis.
According to data from Johns Hopkins University, in the last 28 days, the state of Kerala recorded the second-highest total of new cases in the world with more than 330,000 infections.
“My father swam to the temple and my mother, grandmother and sisters used another pot,” Kunjumon said. “The photographer had to struggle. But he knew the story and was ready to take the risk.”
Admitting that their wedding day was a little “strange,” and that she had been “disheartened” by her family’s absence, Aishwarya said the pair “never expected such a reaction” to their unconventional start to married life. “Everyone was thrilled,” she said.
“With God’s grace, we got married.”
Shaheen Abdulla in Kozhikode, India, contributed to this report.